Too many people are rude to Spoonies. Many people doubt the intensity of our pain and they question if we are indeed really sick. No one seems to understand battling against your body and taking care of yourself is a full time job. Simple tasks are draining. Some people go out of there way to upset us or to be rude. They offer unnecessary options on how to break free of the chronic illness chains.
I cannot tell you how many times people have been disrespectful or stared at me because I use a wheelchair in a store. The majority of the time people either stand in front of me, unwilling to move or practically run away. People act like I have the plague.
Too often Spoonies lose friends due to their illness. Some people want absolutely nothing to do with us while others act strange towards us.
Too often people judge us before they get to know us. People treat us at times like we are nothing or are stupid.
Too often we hear phases like:
But you don’t look sick
You need to be more positive
Have you tired…
You’re too young to be sick
It must be nice not having to go to work/school
You’re just having a bad day
You need to get more exercise
It’s all in your head
Maybe if you got out more
These things get under a spoonies skin to say the least. When people mistreat you, SHAKE IT OFF. It is not your fault. Don’t let them get to you. You are an amazing person. Even though you are ill, you are so valuable. You have so much to offer this world. Shake off the stares, Shake off the negative and nasty remarks, Shake off the heartbreak…. Shake it off.. It”s gonna be alright
Sending lots of spoons, prayers, and hugs. ❤