Dear Daughter of God,
I know you feel burdened and overwhelmed. Becoming discouraged from the struggles of daily life. The enemy seeks to distract you, steering you off course just enough. Planting the seed of doubt. Feeding you lies. You feel worn. The emotions caving in and crushing your tender heart. It seems never ending.
Precious sister, you have victory in Jesus Christ. Your smile reflects His goodness. Likewise, your beauty is beyond word. You are a blood bought baby girl redeemed and forgiven. The Father deeply cherishes you. He loves you with an everlasting love that surpasses your understanding. You are His masterpiece, which He delights in. You bring a smile to God’s face just by breathing. In Christ, you are free, whole, and righteous.
In Christ you are safe. You are spoken for. Pursued. Invited in. He will strengthen you.
God’s purpose for your life is indescribable. He will continue to work in mighty and beautiful ways in your life. Deeply blessing you beyond your wildest dreams. Your life will bring glory to His name. You are a stunning light to others and an inspiration. The Holy Spirit will consume you and guide you. He will always walk with you. God will provide all you need. Your identity has a firm foundation in Christ alone, beloved Daughter of God.
El Elyon (The God Most High),
I praise Your name for each woman reading this. Thank you for knowing the details of her precious story. I praise for allowing her identity to be in You alone. Remind her daily that she is Yours. That she is deeply loved, cherished, and delighted in. Let her live boldly for You. Destroy the lies she encounters. Provide strength for the trials. Thank you for who You are.
Left out, less than, and lonely are just a few words to describe how you feel. The depth of you isolation makes you feel numb. Unworthy. Emotions race. Questions taunt you. Betrayal crumbles your confidence. Everyone belongs somewhere but you. Rejection slices into the core of who you are. The wound is deep. Lies replay like a broken record. Burdened.
Sweet friend, you have not been set aside, but set apart by God. You are deeply loved. No matter what happens God can never love you more or less than He does in this moment right now. His love is flawless. Whole. You are completely cherished. God understands how every moment of your life will unfold. Before, He laid the foundation of the Earth, He had you on His mind.
You are invited in. Always accepted. And deeply loved by Jesus.
Good Morning Warrior,
We compare ourselves from the time we rise in the morning till our head hits the pillow at night. Comparison feeds us lies. Consumed with thoughts of never living up to expectations. Negativity becomes the dictator of our day.
Your identity isn’t in the tasks you accomplish. It isn’t in the things yu can or cannot do. Your identity isn’t the symptoms, pain, medical test, or diagnosis. It isn’t rooted in other people’s options or the things you have loss. You are not defined by any flaw.
I wish you could see what I know, the beauty that radiates from your heart and the way your smile glows. The hope that you anchor in others. You are cherished, valued, and worthy beyond words. Your purpose is amazing. You are making a difference. You are changing the world. Keep pushing forward- even if you crawl go forward. You are stronger than any trial. You are not alone. I am cheering you on and wishing you a wonderful day.
You are stunning. Your smile impacts the atmosphere. Though you beautiful on the outside, your beauty is more than skin-deep. Every element of your personality contributes to your beauty. Your heart of compassion, hope, and joy shines through. Your victories, struggles, tears, and laughter – every note of the melody of your life has contributed to your beauty.
You might feel that your illness or other ‘flaws’ has stolen your beauty. But darling that is so far from the truth. Your struggles have enhanced your beauty. Don’t compare yourself to a past version of you. Don’t compare yourself to family, friends, or women in the media. Illness and medication might alter how you look or see yourself, but I assure you that you are stunning despite the changes.
You have gracefully overcome many things. Your accomplishments are impressive. The little things do matter. You are a fighter, a true warrior.
Thank you for being an inspiring Spoonie Sister. Dance joyfully through this season of life, even when things are falling apart. Keep dreaming, keep moving forward, and never lose hope. The world needs your talents… it needs you.
You have an important role in the invisible fight. You acquired a unique view of invisible illness. You provide support, assist with daily living tasks, and push us to be the best person we can be. You push us to keep fighting providing hope when we want to give up. You have accompanied us to countless doctors appointments, medical testing, and procedures. When we couldn’t find the words, you were our voice. A priceless advocate. You have seen us at our worst and our best. You help sort though medications and bills. You listen to our frustrations, fears, and ambitions. You laugh at our medical jokes. You encourage us to embrace this new season of life and the person that we are becoming.
Honestly, you could never be paid enough for your efforts. Thank you does seem to express enough gratitude. We notice all the little things. We appreciate all your effort, all that you have done, your support, and we appreciate you. You are a warrior; a hero. You demonstrate unthinkable strength. You are an inspiration. Thank you for all you do!
Dear Grace and Sadie,
You both stole my heart and have a special place in it. You are the apple of my eye. You both have blessed me in so many ways, I thank God everyday we are able to spend together. You both help me cope with my health in different but equally important ways.
Grace, you have been my baby almost three wonderful years. We have been through so much heartbreak and obstacles. You are my princess. You worry too much about me. You allow me to rock you to sleep, taking my mind off of the pain for a bit and off of the emotional roller coaster that my medication gives me.
Sadie, you have been with us a short six months, yet it feels like I have known you so much longer. You overflow with love. So full of energy and life. You follow me around making sure I am okay. You call when you can’t find me. You sit with me while I do school work or read.
You both provide stress relief, friendship, and a listening ear. You come when I call you and provide comfort. We exercise together. I love you both dearly with all my heart. I am forever grateful for your presents in my life and I cherish our time together. You give me hope and strength.
Your mom Victoria
You came into my life abruptly and completely took over. You have stolen a lot from me. You have put me through countless hours of doctor visits, medical testing, and unbearable pain. You dictate my life.
Because of you…
I cannot trust my body
I lose hair
I wake up in the morning with rashes and fresh bruises
I need to rest too much
I had to give up dance
I can no longer enjoy time outdoors
I need to take pills everyday
I cannot hang out with friends
Because of you…
I struggle to write
I have trouble walking on my own too often
I have lost friends
I missed my prom
And other ‘important’ high school events
There are days…
I cannot eat
I drag myself through the day
lifting my tooth-brush is tiring
I cannot stop crying because of you
Though you have caused set backs and heart breaks, I cannot neglect to recognize the positives. You have taught me a number of things. You have helped shape me into the person I am today. I can fake a smile and tell jokes despite my pain. I am more grateful and find tremendous joy in the simple things. I cherish every moment with those I love. I have met inspiriting people.
You will win many battles BUT I am not going down without a fight and ultimately I will win. We will defeat you Lupus.
Sincerely Your Grateful Victim,