Spoonful of Spoonie Encouragment

Mornings for those with a chronic illness are a struggle beyond words. Waking up and willing our bodies to function is a fight. Here is a spoonful of encouragement for spoonie warriors. Happy Monday, brave friend!

You have victoriously made it out of bed this morning. The symptoms and pain are already overwhelming, but you’ve got this. You only need to take today one minute at a time. You have all the strength you need, even though it might not seem that way. Anxiety and depression attempt to dictate your day. Take a breath. Take a break.  Get some rest. Keep fighting to make today the best day possible.

You have been chosen to walk this path. It is one filled with heartbreak, disappointment, and setbacks. Walking the path of someone who is chronically ill is a challenge to say the very least. Being sick has most likely disrupted your flawless rhythm with life. It has stopped you dead in your tracks. Your illness has tried to toss your dreams out the window.

Though this path is difficult, I assure you there is a lot of beauty to be discovered. Sure life is not what it used to be, but the song you sing is just as beautiful. There is hope, joy, love, laughter, and life to be found on this path. You will be able to recreate your wonderful dreams. You are still you, despite your illness. You are an amazing and beautiful person with a flawless story and a huge purpose.

    There will be days that you become overwhelmed and feel completely alone. Your feelings are understandable, however, I promise you, you do not walk alone on this path. There are people who care about you, people who understand how difficult the journey is, and people who want to support you.

I am proud of all you have accomplished. I know you will thrive today. This week will be lovely simply because it is the only choice. While you don’t need to be positive all the time you need to take baby steps forward. You are doing amazing. Raise your coffee (or tea) to a great week warrior!

2017 Encouragment

Embrace 2017 with a joyful smile and a grateful heart. Release the grip on 2016 as well as years before that. Start fresh. Hold hope in your precious heart. Countless amazing moments await you, moments consumed with deep laughter, love, and joy. Blessings beyond your wildest dream will be gently laced throughout your year. Cherish 2017. Allow it to be one of the best years every. There is plenty to learn.

Don’t attempt to plan out every second of the year.  Take things as they come, simply, one moment at a time. Don’t become consumed with perfection. Allow bitterness to be washed away from your heart. Don’t harp on the negatives.

Look for ways to bless, encourage, and love others. You are an inspiration. The small things you do to brighten another individuals day does matter more than you understand. Right where you are today, you are making a profound difference in the world.

You have what it takes to thrive this year. Allow yourself to dream again. You are going to do amazing things, my friend.

May the Lord overflow your life with joy, blessings, love, and goodness this year. May he guide your every step. May you grow closer to him daily. May you embrace every moment. I hope you are able to love life and understand how valuable you and your life is. May you fight with all you’ve got against your illness. May you hold onto hope when the world seems to be caving in around you. You will accomplish breathtaking things this year. You will make a difference. Your precious story will bring hope, comfort, and encouragement to many people.

Daughter of God

Dear Daughter of God,

I know you feel burdened and overwhelmed. Becoming discouraged from the struggles of daily life. The enemy seeks to distract you, steering you off course just enough. Planting the seed of doubt. Feeding you lies. You feel worn. The emotions caving in and crushing your tender heart. It seems never ending.

Precious sister, you have victory in Jesus Christ. Your smile reflects His goodness. Likewise, your beauty is beyond word. You are a blood bought baby girl redeemed and forgiven. The Father deeply cherishes you. He loves you with an everlasting love that surpasses your understanding. You are His masterpiece, which He delights in. You bring a smile to God’s face just by breathing. In Christ, you are free, whole, and righteous.

In Christ you are safe. You are spoken for. Pursued. Invited in. He will strengthen you.

God’s purpose for your life is indescribable. He will continue to work in mighty and beautiful ways in your life. Deeply blessing you beyond your wildest dreams. Your life will bring glory to His name. You are a stunning light to others and an inspiration. The Holy Spirit will consume you and guide you. He will always walk with you. God will provide all you need. Your identity has a firm foundation in Christ alone, beloved Daughter of God.

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El Elyon (The God Most High),

I praise Your name for each woman reading this. Thank you for knowing the details of her precious story. I praise for allowing her identity to be in You alone. Remind her daily that she is Yours. That she is deeply loved, cherished, and delighted in. Let her live boldly for You. Destroy the lies she encounters. Provide strength for the trials. Thank you for who You are.

Amen

Encouragement for You

 

Blessings are all around you though at times they might be hard to see. The fact that you woke up this beautiful morning is a blessing. You are a fighter with a sparkling and breathtaking personality. If you are able to walk on your own that is truly a blessing, but if you cannot and you have a walking device that is a blessing as well. Your senses are a blessing as well as all the amazing things your body accomplishes without you taking notice. Those that you hold dear to your heart are blessings so is every moment that you spend with them.

Not only have you received a great abundance of blessings but you have blessed other without even knowing it. You have been a blessing by welcoming a new person to your group of friends or your church. You have been a blessing by reaching out to a friend who was lonely. You were a blessing simply by being present and listening while someone was having a difficult time. Your life story and the story of how you have battled you illness has inspired many. It has given people hope, strength, courage, and peace. Many more people will be inspired by your story and blessed by your compassion. You have impacted more people than you are aware of, you matter to countless people more than you know.
Reflect on all the priceless blessings in your life and encourage someone in your life.

You’re a Fighter who Inspires me

You are a fighter who inspires me. Daily you demonstrate to the world what a fighter looks like. You struggle as you begin your day. Through out your day you accomplish a lot and battle many things because of your illness. Your optimistic attitude is inspirational. You battle so much endlessly. No one knows the depths of your invisible fight. Much of it is internal. Though you are weary your smile holds stunning beauty and inspiration. The fight is never easy. Some days the temptation to surrender is appealing, but you keep pushing forward.

My heart overflows with thankfulness for your presence here on Chronically Hopeful. It is an honor to know that you are here. I am inspired by your fight against invisible illness; your story. I am proud of all that you have overcome. You are my inspiration. You inspire me to keep fighting.Thank you for just being you. Thank you for fighting this chronic illness battle. Thank you for never giving up.I hope you will take a moment today to ponder your invisible fight. Be proud of how far you have come. Celebrate all that you have over come.

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Your illness might be invisible, but you are certainly not invisible. You matter. Your story matters.

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Emotions & More

Emotions can very well be our best friend or our worst enemy or somewhere in between. They change rapidly many times without warning. Adding any medication provides them with an excuse to run wild within. This is downright difficult to cope with. Not only do our emotions run wild but some medications change how we physically appear which can be just another reason we beat ourselves up. We are many times our worse critics. Over analyzing and negatively speaking to our selves. God did not create us to be hated. He is love, he crafted you through and by his love. By his love and grace you were saved. He does not want you in toxic, abusive, or negative relationships. Like wise he does not want you to be consumed by shame and negative self talk.

So much has changed for me sense becoming ill. One physical trait that sticks out like a neon sigh is my lovely moon face. I hated it in the beginning, I was extremely self concuss. Now I am by no means saying that I love it now however I have learned to accept it. More recently I have encountered abdominal swelling which makes me look six months pregnant. The swelling is daunting. Every time I get ready to leave the house the gruesome thought meanders into my mind, what if a some asks if I am pregnant or just asks how far along I am. The things complete strangers come up and say can be mortifying. I struggle with surrendering this completely to the Lord; leaving it in his hands. I give it to God, then go right back to worrying. Letting go and letting God completely be in control of anything is a struggle. As humans we crave control. We try to make sure everything is in place and unfolds according to our plans. We also worry. No matter what physical or emotional changes we encounter God still loves us, we were created in his image. He understands the changes we are facing and he understands our frustration.

Everything here on Earth is temporary, even the side effects from our medication. Coping with physical changes is a challenge, however you are not alone on this journey. Frequently, we feel isolated. We digest the lies that no one understands, no one cares, we are worthless, and unlovable. It is worth repeating, God is with you on this tragically demanding journey of life with a chronic illness. He never leaves you side, not even for a brief moment. He wants you to depend on Him every moment of every day. To depend on him when you have an abundance of spoons, joy, and laughter. To depend on him when you cannot go a step further consumed with debilitating pain and weakness; as you endure medical procedures.

Being wrapped up in life, you might neglect to acknowledge that there are other Spoonies out there. We understand your frustrations, symptoms, struggles, and your journey. Our understanding is incomplete only in the sense that our story varies from yours. We try to provide the most understand, support, and encouragement to one another.

There are countless things to attempt to cope with while chronically ill, it becomes overwhelming quickly. You my friend are doing an amazing job. You have achieved more then you ever expected. You are a warrior. Though the road might be long it is filled with beauty and blessings. All these things will soon pass and only remain as a mere memory. Medications and chronic illness might alter aspects of you, but you are still you. You are stunning inside and out, a true work of art with a breath taking purpose.

Psalms 32:7

“For you are my hiding place; you protect me from trouble. You surround me with songs of victory.” Psalms 32:7

There are days living in the Spoonie world is difficult. Thick anxiety is layered within. Fear of those two heavy words.. what if. There have been an abundance of moments on this journey where I wanted to hide. Like a timid child hidden from the melody of an intimidating thunder-storm.

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When we were children, we didn’t just hide out of fear. Hiding provided entertainment and excitement. The anticipation of being found remains unwavering. However addition positive emotions associated with hiding have melted with age. Negative slush traps us.

Hiding provides an escape. For even a moment I would like to escape the burdens of the Spoonie world; the doctors, medication, testing, emotions… the burden of being a spoonie.

This verse reminds us of our ideal hiding place, which is the Lord. In the mists of chaos and struggles we can crawl into the Lords compassionate arms. He is our hiding place. He is the source of all we need; our everything.

The Lord knows everything; his understanding is unhindered. He spares us from countless tragedies. He gently guides us through each storm.

There is a blissful victory in Jesus. He allows each moment of our lives to work together and bring Him glory. Though I may walk through the valley of the shadow of death melting from the negativity within I know somehow the Lord will receive glory. There are many things I do not understand. But I refuse to allow the burdens of the spoonie life to hinder my faith. Despite it all I will praise the Lord. With a heart of gratitude and wonder I will thank the Lord for my struggles. For he will receive glory and victory. Blessings are woven into this season. He will transform it into a master piece. It will be used for something beautiful.

“Nothing in your life has happened by chance. You are here exactly at this moment in history with exactly the circumstance you have encountered because God has a specific task he wants you to fill.”  The Lord has an astonishing purpose for your life. He will use every negative thing for good, to encourage others. Keep faith. When you cannot take another step, rest in the sovereign arms of God.

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